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Chapter 79: Don’ts Regarding Parental Alienation

Aslan Celic June 6, 2026

By adhering to these dos and don’ts, parents can build healthier relationships and foster an environment of love, respect, and unity, ultimately shielding children from the adverse effects of parental alienation.

Don’ts

1. Avoid Negative Talk

Do Not Badmouth the Other Parent: Refrain from disparaging remarks about the other parent in front of the child, as this fosters hostility and confusion.
Don’t Engage in Gossip: Avoid discussing private disputes or negative feelings about the other parent openly or in the child’s presence.

4. Do Not Restrict Contact

Limit Interactions Unjustly: Never restrict your child’s contact with the other parent without valid reasons; this is counterproductive and harmful.
Do Not Sabotage Plans: Avoid making plans that interfere with the child’s opportunities to spend time with the other parent.

7. Don’t Manipulate Emotions

Avoid Guilt-Inducing Statements: Do not make the child feel guilty for wanting to spend time with the other parent, or imply that loving one parent is a betrayal of the other.
Don’t Create False Narratives: Consistently avoid fabricating stories or misleading the child about the other

10. Don’t Involve the Child in Adult Conflicts

Keep Adult Issues Private: Never discuss disputes about custody or finances with the child; shield them from adult
Do Not Use Children as Messengers: Avoid using the child to communicate messages to the other parent regarding grievances or demands.

13. Avoid Undermining Authority

Do Not Disregard Rules Set by the Other Parent: Respect the other parent’s authority and rules; undermining them can create a feeling of instability for the
Don’t Encourage Disobedience: Avoid encouraging your child to defy the other parent or perpetuating an adversarial

16. Do Not Promote Fear

Avoid Instilling Distrust: Never instill fear or distrust in the child regarding the other parent’s intentions; this can lead to lasting emotional damage.
Do Not Use Threats: Refrain from threatening the child with consequences related to their relationship with the other

19. Never Ignore the Signs

Do Not Dismiss Behavioral Changes: Be alert to signs of emotional distress in your child and address them
Do Not Avoid Seeking Help: Failing to seek help when noticing signs of alienation can exacerbate the situation and harm the child’s well-being.

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